For many, it's a handy tool to hold up your trousers - for me, it is a weapon of ass destruction. Yep, you guessed it folks - it's The Belt! If you are a submissive like me, you probably dread the clink of the metal buckle. You likely get shivers at the sound of the leather… Continue reading The Belt – a weapon of ass destruction.
No submissive can be 100% submissive all the time. If she were she would never be punished, and the dynamic simply wouldn't work. But you've noticed recently that your submissive is acting out much more than normal. She's pushing your limits far too regularly. She's got an attitude. She meets many of her duties with… Continue reading Why your sub is acting out.
Suddenly, the world stands still. Pleasure engulfs your body. Nothing exists in the here and now but you and your Dom - you have entered subspace. Subspace is the place that every submissive desires to reach; it is the female orgasm of Dom/sub play. And, alike female orgasm, it is unique to each individual. A… Continue reading A personal account of subspace.
As a submissive I have two modes - sub mode, and brat mode. There is rarely any in-between. My partner experiences sub mode more than brat mode, even if there's a little resistance there. But, when Brat Em decides to make her way out, there truly is no stopping her. Brat Em is triggered by… Continue reading A downhill spiral; fighting for control.
Everything changes when I hear that tone. I catch a look at those eyes, and the world stops turning for a moment; it's just me, Him, and the giddy feeling in my stomach. Domination takes over my entire body - we like to call it 'jelly'. His voice deepens, His eyes harden, His posture straightens… Continue reading How discipline turns me into jelly.
It's good to start your day as you mean to go on. My partner and I believe this applies to your relationship, and this is why we came up with Morning Duties. Morning Duties are our own little way of ensuring that I am submissive from the get-go. In Sir's opinion, I should be submitting… Continue reading Morning Duties – starting the day submissively.
So, I'm a sub. I like to be spanked... It's really a given! But what is it about being repeatedly hit that drives me so crazy? I'm certainly not a masochist; I don't enjoy pain anymore than the next person. Yet, I long for the stinging touch of my partner to truly bring me to my… Continue reading The benefits of being spanked.